teenage girl ruined dream world

teenage age is a age when you see the world from your heart.you know less dangerous you may possibly face but know the purity of your heart, passion, strongest desire and ready to dive in fire to achieve your goals.
it was long long time ago when we were in school.it was our last year and the girl who had the center of attention was the heroine ( everyone call her heroine due to her popularity). the girl was in a relationship to a male around 24 years of age living beside the school. before their relationship we just have the fence between the two buildings. she gave the school building walls around it.
anyways! every morning when I entered to my class, the headline of the starting of the the was the heroine ( she got a letter from the boy, they met today, she put his letter under her ponytail etc). Heroine has missed a few years to schooling, she was in grade 8th but she would be 15 to 16 years old. The boy as ordinary personality. she was so much happy that she never bothered what other girls talking about you.
it was state school and most of girls belong to labor class. these girls who do almost all of their house work, face mental and physical abuse at home. these girls are the attention seekers and can sacrifice their everything on that person who talk nicely to them. love and attention is everything for them. every human being wants and desire love and care. I never dislike her but feels that may be she is not ready to face the upcoming challenges.
we had completed our schooling and started college.heroine had two years to enjoy at school. we almost forget when one day a school fellow contacted me she told me two bad news. the one was  about our class mate who died in a road accident .she was intelligent and if she have live she would be a good lawyer. she was quite passionate. the other news was about heroine. she got pregnant and the boy left her and refused to accept her. now the class difference and family status didn't allow him to make this girl his wife. she left the school and her parents somehow manage to marry her to some of her relative.
all her dreams and expectation ruined and she faced depression, insecurities, accused for her mistake. some of the countries still accuse and label a women characterless and cheap if she involved in a sexual relationship. the girls should be rational to know who is in love with them and who is just want to spend a good time or just in research of a physical partner.
we still remember the heroine and felt that this was a horrible end of her love story. physical attraction is a natural thing but you must know what you have planned your life and can you really afford such life for the rest of your life. your culture, traditions and family back ground can't change but these all factors determine your upcoming life.
may the youth sweet dreams would not break and not be the pray of someone lust. may their feelings and purity of soul remain with them. amen



for anyone who suffered that kind of pain. be brave life daily gives you an other chance. make your life beautiful. people who live in past rarely enjoy their present. let it go and open your eyes early in the morning like sun is shining for you. its you whom the world is made of and of course there is some thing which is purely your contribution in this world. don't let your sweetness go ..

most important lesson to learn in life

my dear students,

To all of my students and teenagers reading my blog today. I want to share their inside pains and insecurities here. The time in which we all are living ( this modern and  fast world) there are many things which are undefined and unsatisfactory replies make it more difficult to a fresh mind.The mind which is learning and exploring the world in and out of him.
child abuse (abuse mentally or physically), mistrust on him, or don't giving them proper attention cause them to suffer long time in their life. my sweethearts! as you all are growing up and facing many bitter realities of life. some you share easily tell and some are in your eyes which are unexplained and unidentified but I know.
There only one thing every human requires which seems a little bit difficult but its not. Acceptance!  yes my dear , we all in all ages remain stressed for running or struggling for those things which we can't change.we keep arguing inside that what if this would not happen, life will be something else. we keep blaming others who means a lot to us that due to their fault we are in this state.
its not true! you know why because you stuck yourself in that phrase and not accepting the facts!
what if you accept that all of your dear ones including your parents are humans and human does mistakes. they can be wrong sometimes. why not give them chances and forgive them if they once failed to sort out your problem or due to their act you suffered.

we all can never grow up if we don't let go which we can't change

its not that as you are in teenage you are the only one who has acceptance problem. believe me most people has this problem whole life. of course when we are attach to someone, its hard to accept many things but let the storm pass and you feel its not as much difficult.

let assemble some basic teenage thoughts:

1.  my father or mother got second marriage, how he/she could done this to me?
2. I really don't like my new father or mother.
3. my elder brother or any elder beat me. it make me feel like I destroy everything around me.
4. doing things wrong makes me feel like its makes me cool.

have you notice my young fellows! whats common in all? lack of acceptance in your life. what if  you consider any human can fall in love  or have a breakup. for a human its quite ok .yes they(parents) have your responsibility.  all parents do sacrifices. every child wants their parents to stick to together no matter they like it or not but their kid loves that. but if it happened, forgive them and be with them like they love you with all of your faults.

when you start considering humans instead of labeling them father mother step father step mother elder brother, lover anyone. you will be able to accept them with all of their faults.

recently I have listened this song, it has the same theme or main idea. be comfortable with you and your surrounding.make your easier for you.

tag me in the message if you know any other song, movie , book even a quote which make you feel to accept life as it is.

lots of love xoxox

does invisible powers exist?what I saw I can't believe

There are thousands of movies, plays, novels and dramas which we have seen, yet most of people think do they really exist or not? Those who saw something will whisper "YES!" Those who have not such experience will say" NO! Are you a freak-in nut, there are no such things."
In my case well! I do believe because I have experienced something five years back.Its not like something suddenly comes in front of me as we watch on screen. its something you sense someone is here.invisible but yet it is there.
Me and my sister share the same room and like all sisters we fight and mostly on the useless, stupid stuff. its natural! so it was a same night we fought on something and I went to kitchen to drink water.
 One of friend called me and I was surprised on late call. we talk around fifteen minute than my sister entered in to the kitchen.
she said, I am scared
I was still angry so I said, for what?
she said, there are some weird sounds are coming from our room.
I asked, what kind of ?
she whispered, someone opened the lock of our window!
I replied very carelessly, "really"! come on! don't scare me like that. and don't make stories. go and sleep. I am coming.
she left and I continued my call. I shared the story with my friend and laughed that I guess she wanted to end the fight,so she made a story.
After a few days even though I don't believe on her but I observed our room like an investigator. I know her she mostly don't do such things.
And one day what I saw, I cannot believe it.
I was sitting on my bed and a sound start coming, I move my eyes to every side of the room and especially at windows as she mentioned me. but this time its not window, its the door of our attached washroom.it was really horrifying as the doors handle was rotating. I was shocked, breathless , can't believe what I was actually watching.
I rushed towards my mother and told her everything. she said very precious words.
she said" if you don't harm them or disturb their comfort zone, they even don't enter into yours"
I apologize to my sister for not believing her.
we stayed in the same room two more years. but we never used our attached washroom. We started to use the separate one.
we did prayers and they really impact as we were scared. no one can change their home at once .luckily problem solved. as we observed we use separate wash room first but on that days we have started to use our attached one.
I still feel that terror
have you experienced any